It's not about the girls

It's not about the Girls.

It's about you.

This has more to do with what you want, what you need, and how you see yourself than it does with anyone else.

Whenever a girl found you attractive, good looking, or desirable, it was because of you.

You found the sports you love because you were looking for yourself, not for the approval of others.

I don't seek approval from other man, girls and my family.

I am my own reference.

Your crossfit, learn how to pull up, weighlift and make burpees.

Your swimming journey, the deception to realize you didn't swim and the challenge it was to learn all four swimming styles.

Even your work, it was hard making less money and it was rewarding get to Nubank and being recognized as an Engineering Manager.

The tennis journey is also challenging, you won just a few games and you got pissed off when you lose.

But you were playing for the wrong reasons.

What are the right reasons, anyway?

The answer is not performance, it's not even about winning.

It's about doing. It's about feeling. It's about living.

And doing over and over will make you better.

What about porn?

Well, porn is also about... Girls, Horny Girls

And watching porn is like chasing Girls, it's the same as getting over invested in Girls, getting too fucking interested.

This is not what I want.

I want to be in control.

I want them attracted to me.

Change the fucking game!

You is what fucking matters, girls will come after you... When you don't need them.

And that will make them feel deeply attracted.

This will make you strong, powerful and sexy.